Girlfriends...

Hi.

I was thinking about my girlfriends today...there are three different types...

1. Might-as-well-be-family Girlfriends
2. Fair-weather Girlfriends
3. Best Girlfriends

The most unique are those who are might-as-well-be-family girlfriends...these are a group of girls who you have probably known your entire life...you cross every boundary known to friendships you can...yet, you still love em. They still love you. You tell it like it is, despite anything...There are so many twists and turns to these relationships, it would make a soap look boring...In fact, we should start writing scripts and sending them in...they would most definately be award winning...My experience with these friendships, depending on the chic, you may talk everyday, you may talk ten times a day, you may just talk once a month...things just pick up right where you left off...No stories you ever share will be jaw-droppers, we just cannot surprise each other...LOL...these chics you know as well as you know yourself. We mostly skip all the niceness...for outsiders, love is hard to see sometimes...BUT WE DO!!! It's just raw, in your face honesty...You have the potential to drive each other to drinking or tears of laughter and happiness...Either way, emotions are always way high around these. These are the girls you would die for, that you actually live for, that you would walk to the ends of the earth for, no questions asked...THANK YOU, BUFFY, BETSY, TONYA, TINA, AND LISA...YOU ARE THE GREATEST!

Fair-weather girlfriends...You ladies suck! You absolutely are just impossible to deal with...You repulse me greatly...There are very few of you listed here...for a fucking reason...go away...don't talk to me anymore...don't act like you know me when you see me, and you so know you will...Just look away, I know I will Were there signs to your ruthlessness?? Excuses, excuses, excuses...Guess what??? I am NOT buying what you are selling...Passive!! OMG...how passive, non-confrontational, could two idiots be?? That should have been my sign right the fuck there...If you can't handle a confrontation, I'm just not the sweet chic to deal with your ass...We should have stopped there...Turned, and pretend we never even tried to become friends...Hell if I know...These girls--FUCK EM!!! I used to think that if they called me out of the blue, things would just go back and I would get over my aggrevation with them, no, I have come to realize today, that will never happen...the seed has been planted...I just seriously, from the point I publish this post, will forget about these girls forever...I just don't know what to think about you, except, I refuse to turn into you...STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM ME...YOU DON'T KNOW ME, I DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW ME, EITHER, so, stop acting like you do...You are the reason I tend to have very few female friends...You know who you are, names aren't necessary...I will not thank you.

Best Girlfriends are just that...they are so awesome! They are different in that we don't cross lines. We are always kind, have fun, laugh at most things...do absolutely girly things and love it, too...We do things like throw a blanket down, lay on the grass and talk about our men...discuss nail polish...play with each other's hair...help decorate each other's houses and bounce cheesey ass ideas off of each other...We are each other's support in anything...They most of the time graduate to the might-as-well-be-family girlfriends...These are the girls who don't know all your dirty little secrets. In their eyes...your ass is still lily white for as long as you can keep it that way...haha...Thank you, Shelley, Amelia, and Kim! You guys ROCK!!

Now, please, make no mistake, I have other friends, they just don't fall into any of these categories, unfortunately...These listed here are the ones that just strike my chords most...They are all wonderful...