Tuesday, January 24, 2006

If you are wondering...

About Buck...In case you are wondering...I don't deal with men who can't do what they say they are going to do...

Man! Men who don't do what they say they are going to do SUCK! I mean, if it is as little as saying you are going to call and don't...I, as well as, most other women understand...stuff comes up! You don't always have time to sit on the phone...we all have jobs and lives that interfere with plans and such. But, be an adult and call someone or e-mail them...say something came up...who cares? Right?

This happened twice with him. Once, ok...you can overlook it...if it happens a second time, it's a trend. Some might say...isn't it a little early to call it a "trend"? I say no! I'm not sticking around for it to happen a third time, or fourth...heaven forbid anymore than that!

One other thing that I dealt with yesterday...I was speaking to this one dude on Saturday night in between my two dates...I told him straight up I had just gotten home from one date, and after that, I had another date with another dude...LOL...WHO CARES? I am not committed to anyone person right now...I am not even the one who called them dates...I called it having drinks with a couple of friends...I don't have any strings to any guy...As far as I am concerned, both of these men right now, are just friends...How could it possibly be more? Heck if I know!!!

So, fastforward to last night...I was driving home before Bible study and this guy asks what I am doing...I told him I'm running home before Bible study to change clothes...He said, "whoa, I didn't see that in you..." I'm like..."what?"

He said, that because I had two dates on Saturday night that he didn't think I would ever be one to attend Bible study...LOL! WHAT IS THAT ABOUT?

Ok...let me go off on another tangent here...Men have a broad spectrum of thinking when it comes to "friends"...First off...If a man mentions the word "friend" he is talking about a "girl". OK? Know that, ladies...Very few times do men utter the word "friend" and be referring to a male friend...It's gonna be a female, you can nearly bank on it...If a guy is talking of a "buddy"...that would be a male friend...KNOW THIS, LADIES!

I asked this guy that was giving me crap about Bible study and two dates on the same night...how is me having drinks with two dudes any different than me going out for drinks with two girlfriends? OR better yet...HIM going out with two different girls, Oh, I'm sorry, two "friends" or even two "buddies"? He said, "ok...point made"...I said, "THANK YOU." I mean, at this point, these two guys I went out with, are no more than friends right now, and should I EVEN consider them any more than aquaintances? Hmmm...let's think about this...I think they fall into the "people I know" category at this point...

These are just some of the reasons men make me sick from time to time...Their code of conduct seems to just ooze of double standards!

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