Why?
Why do I have so many questions about the opposite sex? No, before you read further and form an opinion about this blog before finishing it, I am NOT about to man bash here...Just, that I have questions...Also, in a sense, I have obvious things to point out...that's all...
I don't understand WHY I am so frustrated with men in general. First, there is the guy I seriously dig, and I feel like we just dance around the truth. I like him, I am convinced he likes me. Friends even are convinced we like each other. Why can't we just get it out there and see what happens. I am a pretty strong-willed person, but, if I am not 100% sure of someone's feelings, I will hold off on making the first move.
Next, I come to the point of WHY do people, not just men in general, use "I'll call you later" as a farewell when ending a phone call? I don't give a rip if someone calls or not! Or even wants to. Trust me, I have PLENTY of people to talk to on the phone, and EVEN MORE to talk about! I don't need some fool telling me that he/she will call me later, just to never call. I have found a couple of guys lately who use that. One I have had the opportunity to bring it up to him. He openly admitted using it as his "getting off the phone phrase". I told him to not say that to me anymore. Don't say it on your "good intentions" just to sound good to someone. It only pisses them off. I don't sit around and wait for the call, necessarily, but, I do remember A WEEK LATER when he/she calls me, "hey...this person said they were calling last week..." and this happens all the time, PLEASE PEOPLE! (My bringing this up to this ONE PARTICULAR person, has changed his actions, and he bends over backwards to do what I want him to do, when I want him to do it...and is SOOOO sexy doing it, too...LMAO! Now, if I could just get the perfect opportunity to confront the other crazies about this same thing...)
Then you have these people who can't lie for anything,yet they continue to do so...the whole, "hugh, hmmm" sound they make before answering, 'in your face' questions, that I just simply love to ask...The biggest confusion here, is of myself. LOL...about 90% of the time, when I ask these questions, I know the answer, I know he is gonna lie. Sure as sugar, I get the whole "hugh, hmmm...blah blah" answer. Lies. This one is starting to be slightly amusing. I guess he feels I have no clue. Occassionally, I will outright say, "you are so full of shit"...(sorry for the language)...He never responds back to that. The question here: Why do I continue to ask questions? Maybe for a slight bit of amusement, I guess...
I just am using all these questions I have about men as a tool to weed some of them out, I guess. I guess if it was really something, my questions would be answered, or there just would be no questions to start with. Which, to never have any questions is just an insane thought.
Ahhh...I'm confused.

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