Being married

Hello, I know, I know. It has been so long since I have written, I almost have forgotten how to navigate around this site. That's pathetic, in my humble opinion.

I guess when one gets married, life really does change. Your priorities do change. But, you know, I don't regret one single thing since I have become Lin's wife.

Lin just recently left, only for a month this time. I have had a rough time with it, too. I have cried so much. Anyway, once he was gone, I made a respectable list of things that I would like to get done while he's away. I'm chipping away at it one by one.

The lengths that I will go to to make this deployment go by. BUT! The faster this one goes by, the sooner the next one will be. Isn't that the way it always is though? I'm starting to learn to not wish things go by so fast. It's like Christmas as a child; you rush to it and all through it, only for it to be over the next morning. I began saying a few years ago (when Christmas was still fun) that I don't want it to hurry up! The sooner it hurries up, the sooner all of it will be over. I know, some of you Scrooges out there are like, "I wish it would never even come around!" I'm not a Scrooge though, and this blog is all about "me".

Anyway, being married has opened my eyes to so much! I have a wonderful husband that I'm convinced God created this special mold just before pouring it, and then discarded it after. This man is amazing! And loves me, good lawd, he loves me!

So anyway, I honestly have no clue what I did or how I functioned when I was single. What a waste of time! I met Lin when I was 31. Why couldn't we have met when I was 21? I know, I know, if that would have happened, he wouldn't have had his three special treasures, I do mean that without sarcasm, this time. I know that each day we spent of our lives prior to us meeting was forming us for who we would become in order to be so perfect for each other.

I do think I'm the lucky one however. I mean, I have been ruthless to people in my past life. How exactly all this was approved from the man upstairs, I'm a little puzzled about. I just know once I met Lin, I had to have him. I opened the door, and he walked in. Forever. Never left. When I opened the door to my house, I also opened the door to my heart. He took it. I thank God everyday for Lin and I being together.

I highly recommend marriage (to the right person.)