Lesson Learned...

So, this week and weekend turned out to be quite interesting in the dating world of Carla...Needless to say, I pointed out to my friend, Corey, I AM MY OWN WORST ENEMY!!!!

Let me start out by saying...trust your instincts people! LOL...I met this one dude, Danny, he is proving himself to be a complete and total asshole/born loser! Why did I think he was so awesome...He thinks I am some brainiac! I mean, I know, I'm quite brialliant, but no Einstein...Let's put it this way, those who walk around quoting Einstein (people like me), are not Einstein's themselves...he should know this...Anyway, I'm chalking him up quickly...so...'NEXT'...

I had a date on Saturday night with the sweetest, cutest guy...(I know, you have all heard it before from me)...but seriously...he's very sweet, very smart, very cute!!! We had a really nice time talking...we had just hours and hours of amazing conversation...which totally works for the Chatty Cathy I happen to be...haha...So, at the end of the night, I went home, he went home...I felt good about possibly seeing him again...but, then...dum dum dum...

***IMPORTANT SIDE NOTE: HE DRIVES A NEW, BLACK NISSAN ALTIMA WITH WISCONSIN TAGS***

On Sunday my best friend came to stay with me for the night and we had a quasi-double date (which I don't typically agree to, but did it for her)...HEY! A date is a date...and I'm all about hangin out, on this endless journey to find true love...Well, when we drove up, (my date, my best friend, and I drove together), she asked, "is that my date's vehicle?" (she's terrible with cars)...Well, I didn't pay her ANY attention...I was too busy checking out the car beside her...it was a new, black Nissan Altima with Wisconsin tags...YEAH! You guessed it...He was sooooooo in that restaurant...I flipped out...Lisa and my date just didn't get it...I was like soooooooo not wanting to enter in...I did it anyway...I never made eye contact with him...NOT once! I did see him from the corner of my eye though...I just pretended that I didn't see him...

The date on Sunday night was ok...I had a better time on Saturday night though...I was gonna call the guy from Saturday night on Tuesday, but, I called yesterday and left a message...No return call as of yet...I screwed up royally said one wise soul named Corey...I guess I should have said hello or thru my hand up or something...But, I didn't...lesson learned.

Sighhhhh....

I am really tired of dating...You know? I meet men who are older...they are set in their ways...I meet men who are GREAT, they are deploying, pcs'ing, and are just looking for sex...ugh...When will it all end?? I swear...Then...then there are those weirdos...Who like tell you they have a PI agency and they have the means to look into anyone's life...now, on that note...I will attempt to exit the stage...Note I say "attempting"...Do you ever get away from those creeps??? Good question...

So, I just got back from Ponte Vedra...OMG...I want a hotel like THAT! I swear I still think I need an assistant though, yes, a personal assistant...My life is too hectic for even me, I feel like I could really benefit from having one...I know, you probably are thinking...this chic is NUTS! I'm really not...I just think I need one...we need what we need, right??

So, different people are wondering...what's goin on with me in the dating world...Well...It's on the downswing I think...You would NOT believe all that I have been thru in the last 2 months...I have been knocked down, dragged down, and pushed around (not physically)...First, let me say thank you to my good friend, Corey for mentioning my blog and getting me in the mood to write (he didn't have to do alot)...THANK YOU JACK...for all you do, you know what you do...haha...giving it to me straight regardless of whether or not I always listened...I am trying to get rid of some of the trash in my life lately...I have been pretty successful with it for the most part...I finally realized last week that Andy is so out of my life...what was I thinking? Geez!!! I must have bumped my head and was probably suffering from some sort of mental block...did I NOT read "he's just not that into you"??? One would think not...The best though are the men who when you reject them, you are forced to receive a fury of rath like none other...WOW...When men get rejected they really flip out...There is a certain sense of joy on my part though...LOL...

So, there are two men, too soon to really talk about...I don't wanna like talk too soon, as you know I have a tendancy to do...

OH!! And last minute addition: You know who REALLY pisses me off??? Those who call you or e-mail you b/c they need something...What's really sad is when you can tell what they want before you answer the phone, before you open the e-mail...LOL

Until next post...Love some of ya!